VIVIR

Vive cada segundo como que sea el último
No sabes cuándo será el último
Aprovecha, sal, vive
Llora, ríe, ama,  perdona
Todo en la vida pasa por algo
Todas las personas que aparecen en tu vida
Aparecen por algo
Algunas vienen por un rato
Todas te enseñan distintas lecciones de vida
Algunas vienen y se quedan toda la vida a tu lado
Mamá, papá, hermanos, amigos, amigos que son como hermanos
Incluso parejas

Hay parejas momentáneas, de segundos, de días
De años y de vidas
Sí, de vidas... 
De esas parejas que crees que se conocieron en vidas anteriores
o de esas que no son para estar en esta vida
Si no en algún futuro, en alguna reencarnación 
O en el cielo
Hay parejas que también resultan ser de todas tus vidas
Pasado, presente y futuro

Lo bonito de este regalo que Dios nos dio
LA VIDA
Es que nunca sabes cuándo termina
Es como un challenge, de qué pasará hoy?
Es un regalo hermoso que hay que saber cuidarlo
Hay que vivir bien

Sé feliz, quiere y ayuda a tus prójimos,
no desaproveches los segundos de tu vida con malos pensamientos
Malas acciones, o haciendo daño a terceros
No hagas daño, no ganas nada
Vive tu vida y no te fijes en las del resto al menos que sea para ayudarlos
Ser amable y bueno no cuesta nada

APRENDE A VIVIR

VIVE BIEN

QUIERE BONITO

ERES FELIZ?

Cuando me casé contigo me prometí hacerte feliz toda la vida. Pensé que estaba haciendo un buen trabajo pero no fue así. Yo no era suficiente para ti y buscaste a otras personas, sin pensar dos veces en mí y el daño que me ibas a ocasionar. El lado bueno a todo esto es que aprendí a valorarme más y entendí que primero debo hacerme feliz  a mi misma. Aunque a veces me acuerde de ti, debo admitir que sin ti soy muchísimo más feliz. Y tú, eres feliz? Espero que sí.

Random

Three years ago, you were with me, the day my nephew was born. I guess I'll always think of you on his birthday. We woke up with the news that my sister in law was in labor.. I remember that day as if it was yesterday. 

One year later

A year to heal and discover the new me. 

A year to grieve... A year to embrace a lot of changes in my life.

I made it.

As I celebrate the one year anniversary of my divorce, I realize how giving away everything that reminded me of my ex was a great decision. It helped me to move on faster than what I thought. I realized that besides all the issues and obvious behaviors I disapproved of him, the main reason I chose to get divorced was because he didn't love me the way I wanted to be loved. See... I grew up in a family with values, who care, respect and love each other no matter what. I couldn't understand his way of "loving me" by being crazy possessive, jealous, and by cheating on me... to me that was not love. Maybe for him it was, maybe he grew up surrounded by those behaviors where love was supposed to be portrayed by someone (man or woman) putting up with infidelity and constantly forgiving all types of disrespectful behaviors. Maybe that's his meaning of love. But that's not mine. And I'm ok with that, I'm not sorry for being different or for being honest and respectful. I'm happy with who I am, and I'm happy for deciding to divorce my ex because at the end of the day, we wanted different things in life. This year was hard, because I actually really loved him... for good or for bad, he was the man of my dreams until I started to realize that he wasn't... and that I had made a mistake. But I learned. Now, I have more experience and finally can see the red flags. 

Divorce was the right answer. It gave both of us another chance to find happiness elsewhere. There is no reason why someone should stay in an unhappy marriage, even if there are kids involved. You should always aim for happiness. I choose to be happy and have no regrets for that.

Time heals the wounds, forgiveness is possible and happiness is worth the struggle.

Encuentra valor

"Usualmente nos arrepentimos de los pasos que no dimos, o de cambios que no hicimos. No sabremos hasta dónde podemos llegar si nos frena el miedo".

Friendship

FRIENDSHIP is: secretly giving people nicknames so only we know who we’re talking about. No need for explanations. Always knowing what the other is thinking. Comfortable silence. Long phone calls about nothing. Annoying each other and thoroughly enjoying it. Being each other’s therapists. Sharing every little detail about every little thing. The ability to talk nonsense and have that nonsense respected. Not being able to wait to tell each other stuff. Laughing, laughing, laughing, laughing and laughing. Forgiving each other no matter what. Conversations impossible for others to understand. A reassuring presence. A whole conversation with just one look. Never getting bored with each other’s blabber. Total certainty, total truth. 


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Todo pasa

Todo pasa...
el dolor... la nostalgia... el extrañarte... 

El tiempo cambia a las personas
reflexionas sobre todo lo que te ocurrió
y comienzas a entender lo intendible

La vida es tan corta
no vale la pena sufrir por lo que alguien te hizo
o sentirte mal por el mal corazón de esa persona

Lo hecho, hecho está
hay que continuar viviendo
pero sobretodo hay que sanar y volver a sonreír

Reir no de la boca para afuera
si no reir desde adentro
desde lo más profundo del alma
de esas risas que te dan dolor de barriga

Porque todo pasa... y la vida hay que vivirla siendo feliz.